that there was such an organiza- K.R. (Hong

tion like yours. Kong)

Dear Carol: Enclosed are three letters which I ask that you forward to my sisters in our Sorority. One of the letters is for a sister in Virginia. I have extended an invitation to her to come to my home for a weekend and attend a Sorority meeting. She will stay at my place Satur- day evening, if she accepts. My wife has said that it is fine with

her I think that she is looking

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forward to showing off another crossdresser at the meeting. It is interesting in that it almost seems that the five wives that attend the chapter meeting have a subtle form of competition going on - to see who can have the best looking Tv spouse. All five couples entertain fre- quently on a crossdressing basis.

-- invite the crowd over, pro- vide dressing rooms, towels, makeup mirrors, etc. We have cocktails, a buffet dinner, a lot of chatter, etc. It makes for a very pleasant and relaxing even- ing. The wives pulled a fast one

Cheri

at the last gathering, though. Our hostess set two tables and indicated that one was not to sit at the same table as her spouse. The wives were first to the serving table and decided, instead, that we'll all sit together - that is to say, that the wives would be at one table and the Tv husbands at the other. And that is how it ended up. It was interesting in that at our table, without the wives, the conversa- tion ranged from the Redskins football team to cross-your-heart bras. I would have loved to have taped the conversation. The seat- ing arrangements did not detract from the meal and didn't really make any difference in the end since we all ended up at the same table for after-dinner drinks. I must say that the "Society" girls that I have met, and their spouses, have been absolutely super very pleasureable people. I think that it speaks well for the Society For The Second Self. As I mentioned previously, it seems that once you say that you a Society Sorority sister, then you have "Carte Blanche"

are

"Igor, I realize that's what you would want to look like have the technology to carry it off."

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but we just don't

into any other organization. One of my sisters (and this is an example of them) came across in fine fashion last Sunday. My wife is in upstate New York at the present time. I had spent a good deal of that Sunday, fully dressed with make-up and took some pictures of myself, cleaned up the house, etc. By seven that evening I was finished and quite bored so I called up one of my sisters and asked if she would mind if I came over "dressed" for a drink. In turn she suggested dinner and drinks. She, her wife and I had a delightful evening and I drove home at about two in the morning slightly sloshed (I still don't know where I put the black belt that I had on that evening). But in any event, I had a super time. This is the kind of sister that it has been my good fortune to meet. Thanks for simply doing what you are Susan doing for the "cause." (VA-5-R)

Dear Carol: After being what I supoose can only describe as a non-practicing crossdresser through sixteen years of a very happy marriage, circumstances seem to have led me to giving the desire some expression. My wife is understanding and sup- portive, but wants to have as little contact as possible with "Sue." Sue was created for a cos- tume party we both attended a year ago. After having read Virginia Prince's The Transvestite And His Wife, I now understand that gave my wife too much of a shock. Since I had never crossdressed, even in private, nor discussed my desire to do so with my wife, she was very much con- fused and upset by that occasion. When I said that I planned to go to the party as a woman, she as- sumed that it would be a campy- comic performance. I guess that is what I may have intended as well. Sue was born, a cultured, well-dressed, well educated wo-